Porn & Safe Sex

I came across an Ohio State University article talking about how the adult entertainment industry is trying to make porn or adult movies more safe sex friendly by having the actors slip on a condom at some point. Unfortunately some just settle for one condom for oral, vaginal and even anal sex. Which I wouldn't recommend, and wetting a condom done isn't good either, that causes it to be that more possible to break.

Those of you that don't know what's going on. All adult movies made in Los Angeles, California under state law, of mandatory use of condoms in their movie productions. This law was passed between 2011 and 2012. Unfortunately a lot of people in the porn industry are unhappy at how this is ruining the industry. Currently, because of the date of the article and first report, the porn industry are trying to find a loophole (in lawsuit formats) to abolish the law all together.

What do I say on this?? I'm surprised that the government would take such an abrupt stand point to promote safe sex, but I won't say I totally disagree. In my personal belief I think safe sex should always be promoted. No matter the reason or cause or even if it's after fact it should always be promoted. However making it a law for the porn industry to wear a condom knowing very well most states requires by law you have to be 18 or 21 to view or buy any thing related to "adult entertainment" is there. So to me not only are they making a cause into a double negative you're still defeating the purpose. By that I mean, you're avoiding talking about safe sex in schools and even to the elementary kids. Whether it's educators or parents, you can't expect someone to know something if you don't tell them and if you only go about it half assed and say hey use a condom and nothing else. Well of course that's not going to turn out effective. That's like saying well hey don't touch that fire with no reason. Say don't touch the fire because you can and will get hurt and possibly burnt.

USE a condom, you don't want an unplanned pregnancy or to catch a sexually transmitted disease or even HIV or AIDs.

See it's not that hard. 

Either way, I will say that this much that I do think porn stars should care more about their well being and health. I understand it's made to look realistic and that $50,000 pay check is exciting. But did you know that porn stars have to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases and HIV almost everyday. They have to present their results and all documented paperwork every time they go in for work. Some even in the end of being safe and in the clear of diseases, end up with something. One former porn star I read about ended up having Chron's Disease due to having TOO MUCH anal sex. Or to be serious about it, having unclean objects enter your vaginal or anal areas, some like baseball bats and glass bottles aren't suppose to be used for. It's truly sad when you get down to the bottom of what it is like to be a porn star. However I personally feel as long as this is their job, they should go about it the way they feel most comfortable. Some actors go hours and days having sex just to make a 30 minute clip. I think if they're willing to put their health and well being on the line and have a love for the job that they do, they should be able to go about their work in the way they feel most comfortable. If they want to use a condom so be it and if not then they don't have to. So pair up the people who want to use condoms together and those that don't together.

In any case, I've yet to see the porn stars take time out to put a condom on. It's rare to come across a porno that is not amateur or self fame even, for anyone to be using any type of contraceptives. So then I have to seriously wonder, the movies that have the actors wearing a condom must being the ones that either cost too much money to rent or own or they're not being distributed like they should.

I find the big to-do a bit silly and that's not going to solve the problem with getting people to wear condoms and practice safe sex. As for the article, not everyone watches the same TV show and you can't necessarily say that women are bound to do something by watching a show. I rarely watch TV now and what I do watch doesn't talk about sex or condoms or anything regarding the topic anyway. Just like porn is not going to make men wear condoms. Hell in college you try to find any free porn sites you can oppose to taking what little bit of money you get from your job to buying porn movies.

Hopefully in the years to come we have more people worried about teaching our children about safe sex and how to promote it. You can be a virgin or celibate and approach the situation any way you like. However if you are ready for sex and you know your partner is ready as well definitely use a condom. One condom is another night of fun without the added worry of pregnancy or a disease or cooties ^_^.

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Teen Pregnancy, If You're Ready Get A Condom

Even though Bristol Palin isn't a favorite in everybody's book. It doesn't mean she's totally wrong when it comes to the subject of teen pregnancy. I can't help but agree with her. When you see other women and girls pregnant and left as a statistic, you automatically say that's never going to happen to you. Regardless of situation or of your upbringing. You should never say it won't happen. Because it can and there's a possibility that it will. However to prevent this, we need to use a condom. Not all women can use birth control due to the severity of side effects and in some cases hormone deficiencies. If you refuse then you need to learn to stand up and take full responsibility of it and don't write it off as an adoption or an abortion because that baby didn't ask to be here and that can't always be a solution. 

Never say Never, ok.

Men, Bedazzle The Dick

So I came across this one night while surfing about. I found it so humorous I had to know more and believe it or not I not only found a definition for it but also a few pictures. Pejazzling is the male equivalent to Vajazzling. For those of you that don't what that is it's when a woman waxes the kitty clean, like brand new hardwood floors or those of you don't understand—HAIRLESS. Then she get's another lovely lady to glue on these cute crystals (sometimes faux fur or feathers....kinky, right??) in any shape, design or whatever you have in mind. It usually lasts for about a month or so and depending on the adhesive, you can possibly shower and go swimming with it. 

Honestly I don't know what I would say if a guy busted out his cock and it's more glittered up than a nail polish display!! That was so trippy for me and I just couldn't fathom the possibility, if guys are doing this to get more attention for the love below, I must say it's not going to work men. It really isn't and if some wild woman says that shit is hot, they're crazy!!

I even cam across a crazy article on Pejazzling that you all have to read about. Yes that's the definition I cam across that you see to the right here lol.

Hmm I wonder what will be bedazzled next?? I actually wouldn't mind seeing some bedazzled titties hahahahaa is that so wrong?? Oh my what if they come out with Ass Bedazzling?? OH MY GOODNESS! People are going too far with the fancy kitty and penis decor. Honestly just shave it or put it in a cute strip or whatever's your flavor. I'll only go so far as to pierce or dye it that's about it, sorry but I don't want random jewels falling from my crotch and confusing poor children at the swimming pool or bathroom XD.

The Different Types Of Pussy

Update: If you'd like to see a real life adaption of this chart click here 

1. Razor bump pussy. She’s still experimenting with the best Gillette model. The new razor with five blades caused a surprising amount of irritation.

 2. Honda Civic pussy. The most common type of pussy. Reliable and basic with clean lines.

 3. INTJ pussy. The clitoris is out just enough to make a pleasant introduction, but she’s not exactly dancing on the bar. 

 4. Cunnilingus pussy. Another common pussy type with strong clitoris action. Easy to go down on if you do that sort of thing (I don’t).

 5. Vintage porn pussy. Humans have long since evolved, so you won’t find a young girl with this pussy anymore. 

 6. Lazy pussy. She’s putting in zero effort with her appearance yet still expects guys to approach her all night. You suspect she alternates between only two “going out” outfits. 

7. Spinster pussy. This scraggly and worn pussy gave up and is ready for the body attached to it to die. 

8. Dog ear in the wind pussy. The clitoris flaps around like it has a mind of its own, but trying to understand its movements will only confuse you. 

9. Rain drop pussy. One more drop of pussy flesh and the surface tension will no longer be able to hold the entire apparatus to her body. I like the clitoris here more than the dog ear in the wind pussy because it’s easier to diddle. 

10. Pedophile pussy. Perverted men put it all on the line to score this virginal pussy. It’s as pristine as a mountain spring—can you blame them? 

11. Predator pussy. If you stare at this pussy for 40 seconds, an image of the Predator alien will pop out at you. 

12. Big pussy. Easy entry/exit, but she won’t feel anything if you’re not well-equipped. She’ll be polite, though, and let out a few token moans at your ineffective thrusts.

13. Experienced pussy. This pussy tries to fake but those bumps don’t lie. They act like tree rings and are easily measurable by trained scientists. 

14. Social anxiety pussy. Awkward body language and tonality. You need a lot of foreplay with this one.

15. Domestic violence pussy. The pussy got out of line so the man had to slap it around, leading to a swollen, tender appearance. (That reminds me—what do you say to a girl with a black eye? Answer: Bitch I already told you once!) 

16. Diarrhea pussy. This pussy ate a bad meal from Taco Bell and is now shooting semi-digested pellets into the toilet bowl. 

17. Toyota Camry pussy. Roomier version of the Honda Civic pussy and more reliable with lower maintenance costs. Bring along a couple of your friends. 

18. Last minute pussy. God didn’t decide on the gender of this pussy until the last minute, hence the huge meaty bit that makes penetration extra challenging. 

19. Chubby pussy. You look at this pussy and are not sure whether to recommend the cookie diet or P90X. 
20. Shy pussy. More outgoing than social anxiety pussy, but her constant silence makes you wonder, “Does she like me? Is she playing games?” 

21. Developmentally stunted pussy. If they caught the problem early then an endocrinologist could have prescribed a hormone treatment, but unfortunately it’s too late now and what you got is a pussy that is small and under-powered. 

22. Used to be fat pussy. This pussy has lost so much weight that the remaining skin is flabby and loose like an overripe pear. 

23. McMansion pussy. You love this pussy in the beginning, bragging to your friends about all the extra storage space it contains, but then once you see your electric bill you wish you bought something more economical. 

24. Eagle pussy. Wings in the back offer more stability during flight. Graceful, earnest. 

25. Interstate highway pussy. When they built this pussy it was like a dream to drive on the freshly paved asphalt, but over development of the surrounding areas has led to intolerable sprawl. 

26. Anteater pussy. How your grandma’s pussy looks like. Loosening muscle and skin has forced the first couple inches of the vaginal canal to prolapse outside of the body. Grandpa ain’t complaining though… that sly devil. 

27. Terminator pussy. One of Skynet’s first models. The clitoris has a formidable exoskeleton that will swallow up your dick if you don’t disable the chip first. 

28. Turkey pussy. Wings, giblet, caruncle, wattle—you got it all here. Starter package comes with special handling instructions and food for the first month. 

29. Department store pussy. It looked great when you tried it on in the fitting room, but at home it looks a little off. Maybe it’s one size too small? 

30. Morbidly obese pussy. When this pussy gets sick you need to need to call the special ambulance with the human crane. All hands on deck!


source: ShinBow

Happy Hump Day!!

Plastic Dreams

While I was on the internet finding ideas I could use to incorporate into my Bunny List of how to enjoy my summer as well as enjoy being single. I came across this post written in the Boston Magazine about a year ago. I honestly was happy I came across it. It's called Single By Choice.

This article took my breath away and made me unbelievably happy with how well it was written and all the topics covered. Though I did disagree with a lot of the things they talked about and felt it was inappropriate to categorize every single person under the same or very limited groups.



I personally took offense to the article and whoever saying that single people are single because their parent's had terrible relationships. I also disagree that ever single person either didn't want a life of marriage or never were interested from the beginning. In my case neither accusations are true. I came from a loving household and my parents were happily married for 42 years until my father died. I also grew up knowing and knew I wanted to be married and have my own family. Unfortunately, I grew up with the false sense of security hoping that people wanted these things just as much as I did. I didn't expect that the lousy guys from high school would be at college or that the world would be overrun with them. I guess I was hopping for some Utopia of something great and when I didn't receive it was confused, unhappy and quite hurt and pissed off. I also didn't expect that while being single I would be portrayed as being the bad guy. Just like the article says we single people are seen as incompetent, selfish and lonely people who aren't mentally or emotionally stable for relationships. That farthest from the truth! I've noticed that it's the truth, people in society have planted it in concrete and refuse to break the mold.

Just because I may be out of work, and at home with my mother doesn't mean I'm a failure at life or enjoy being single or even a failure as a woman. I have gone out and look for work, but they only want to hire women who are educated or those who have families. The government gives breaks to those who are coupled off or married or with dependents (children). Even brands and media are geared towards coupled people. I honestly would rather see a single woman trying to live her life out and figure it out oppose to watching another fucking minute of the Bachelor. I even get offended with coupons and deals that are aimed to coupled people. The the Bureau of Labor Statistics found that in 2008 single people accounted for 35 percent of all consumer spending, and made $2.2 trillion worth of purchases, a 30 percent increase from five years earlier.

Did you know that for a college student to get a break from their student loan debt (even if they default) they can get half written off by being married. They can get it all written off if they have children or are on welfare (to get welfare in the state of Pennsylvania you have to be pregnant or with at least one child). Today, there are more than 1,100 federal provisions that provide benefits and protections exclusively to couples.Yesterday on the news they made an announcement that now Homosexual Couples can now apply for the adoption tax credit if one adopts the other partner's child(ren), however this does not include Heterosexual Couples.

I'll definitely say now that it's not fair that society has grown from people getting married for family prosperity and reputation or even negotiable arrangements like back when two kingdoms would combine to become a bigger stronger kingdom. To say well people get married for love, even in today's society that's no longer the case. However society now is forcing people into getting married just to live this so called happy lifestyle. I know single men have their problems, but they don't get the bullshit like single women do. People actually believe we're single because we're the problem or we're inadequate when it comes to marriage, love and relationships. But that isn't the case, with the way people are so wishy-washy it's not like you've got a lifetime to find out which is which and go from there. If you were given a long time frame then so be it. Since we only get a good 20 or 30 so of years finding the right soul mate, marrying them and reproducing with them. We still have other things to do like going to school and building a life for ourselves whether it's a career or a just a job. Those things take time too! Even if you decide to go at either separately or together it's still the same as taking a huge chunk of your lifetime.



I say that we as single people need to stand up and let the world know that we exist and NO WE AREN'T GOING AWAY. We live here just like you do, and we do more than a coupled off person does. We buy the products, we go out more, and we are the ones traveling the world and enjoying time on our own. Yeah being single can and will get lonely and boring after awhile. However if you're determined to make it your livelihood you can make it a happy one. Stay away from coupled off people, they only know of their spouse or their kids or how much Disneyland Costs. Who wants to hear that but others in the same situation as them?? Just because you've decided to be single doesn't mean you can't enjoy sex, or going to the movies alone or eating alone--it's terrifying! Believe me I know! However do you want to sit at home and let the coupled off people, the government and society make you become everything they said you would become??? HELL NO!! Get out there and be a fucking proud ass singleton and tell them to shove that Life, Love & Family bullshit up their ass and if they insist on being defiant about it and want to tell you about yourself. Tell them I'll personally shove my stiletto so far up their ass they'll become a short live fashion trend.

We may not have the same hopes and dreams, but at least we don't believe in Plastic Hopes & Dreams to satisfy someone's desires. Those that have to fabricate a lifestyle and pretend, really wasn't sure of what they were getting themselves into in the first place. That's also my personal opinion too, lol.